My L is setting up the Modification hearing to attempt and reduce the Spousal support I pay my W till we are D.

I don't know what will come of it but either way I don't think it will please my W to be back in court. Not my Problem.

I am still having a problem wrapping my Head around the visit from the OM's Wife or girlfriend but most definitely Mother of his children.


I empathized with her mostly because we are in the same predicament. We both want the A to end so we can try and put our R slowly back together hopefully. I know there are no "for sures" in this Sitch and even if the A ends it doesn't mean that my M will get back on track but it is the only scenario that makes it possible.

thoughts and advice appreciated.

Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014