Riding the rollercoaster

[Hoju]

Hey Dawgy, I'm sure you've been told this 1000 times already but you can't control your W. She is going to do what she is going to do, all you can do is be the best you can be.

You clearly want her back or you wouldn't still be here. You don't want to kick her out because you're scared she will call your bluff and actually go. You need to find some way to accept that you will be ok without her in your life. I know this probably isn't the best advice in the world but you really need to detach and it worked for me. Go out to a bar and just try to pick up a girl. Don't go home with her, don't brag to you W, just give yourself a little confidence boost that things will be ok with or without your W. Remember women are attracted first and foremost to confidence, if you're mopping around your house and acting insecure you'll never turn your W on.