Well we continue... She still states she does not know, wants me to find another woman, is confused, wants to hire a mediator after the holidays, appreciates who I am, does not trust me, thanks me for doing everything to help the relationship, does not want to go on trips with me, wants me to hold her, does not want me to hold her, is seeing a councelor, states "so you think the councelor is going to make me want you", wants to move out, does not want to move out, wants to get frisky, states she regrets getting frisky...
I am disconnecting.
Sound like my wife. Right before Halloween she was close and affectionate, telling her friends how much she loves me; we had sex (really good sex) twice in 2 days. Fast forward to this weekend, and she feels totally disconnected from me, finds no comfort in my presence, etc...I know that I shouldn't believe anything she tells me (per the rules) but detaching is the only thing that any of us can do to keep our sanity and our cool.
Ex Rzrback Me 43 Her 44 D11, D15 T21, M19 BD 9/9/2014 Piecing
Sometimes if you want to see a change for the better, you have to take things into your own hands - Clint Eastwood
