All good points that I need to sort. Perhaps my answer would be that monogamy is an unrealistic, unobtainable goal for many and that is a product more a superimposed moral code than the reality of human desire. That only a very very few people are lucky enough to find someone who meets all their needs at all times throughout all stages of life. That everyone has their deal breakers, that each person must accept how much bad to accept to get the good, and where their line is.

Maybe right were she wants me is a place I'm OK being. At least for now, while I figure things out.

My marriage is gone- that I know. My only question is what do I want my future to look like, and for once I’m taking my time to figure that out rather than rushing in.

Last edited by Bart42; 11/10/14 09:20 PM.
Me: 45 W:43
M: 15, T:21
2 Kids- S-14, D-12
A Started: 10/2013
Discovered as EA: 6/2014, as PA: 7/2014
A changing, not ending
Start DB'ing 9/2014
Same house, same bed