Gogo, I resonated so much with your description of how you got here in your sitch. Its amazing how much hindsight allows us to see. Sounds like there is room for possibility for you though. Hopefully she will figure things out. You seem to have a really calm grasp of your sitch though. Good for you.
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10