Thank you Y@H for that info. we do have a number for a sex therapist...looks like i may be the one who has to make the initial call and appointment.

this weekend wasn't good. frown

I'm really frustrated with his ED and so is he, but i feel that he is still in the blaming stage...seems it's my fault when it doesn't work. I know it isn't, but in the moment, that really hurts, angers and frustrates me.

in the non sex part of our relationship we are doing well...bonding over some things that we are both going thru with his daughter and our house in another state, etc. Also, taking Tai Chi classes together. smile

I didn't forget about this site...i'm in and out (haha, no pun intended)

Peace


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