Is it too late?

[123Gwen]

GG -

I find myself rereading your post almost every day. THANK YOU!

I feel like you got inside my head and added a whole bunch of good juju for me to remember during dark days.

I am grateful I live in a state where separation is recognized. I can draw those boundaries and protect myself and my girls without filing for D. Unfortunately the business side of separation seems to be at odds with the DBusting philosophy. I was so confused but I keep coming back to your wisdom GG...

My actions are coming from a place of reason. My goals are self preservation and peace. I am not comfortable with the speed of this process but I am comfortable with my motives. For now that is going to have to suffice.

I am trying to pack my DB luggage wisely. Sadly I have lost a good friend or two (they thought I was too slow and should be over it) but I also realized I have a lot of fantastic people in my life. I am In IC and while the emotional side of things are slowly progressing I understand that this will take time. I keep reading but I don't want to obsess. I keep praying but I don't want to become fanatical.

The trick is in the balance. I am carrying some heavy weight with the business of a formal separation. I guess that's ok as long as I let it go as soon as possible to let in other tools that will help me grow and learn.

You are such a gifted writer GG. Thanks for sharing.