jim0987 #4 - strengthening my inner cat

[jim0987]

Sorry my spelling was atrocious on that last post. Problem with always posting from my phone.

I've spent a lot of my life trying not to be my dad. Fictional is the only realistic option for a role model for me and the examples I can think of would all have kicked my W out the house and separated all the finances immediately before going no contact. (Not sure that's what you meant)

I know deep down that fear is my problem, when confident is what I should aim for.