Raliced - Climbing Without a Rope

[Shakspr]

raliced, you're doing pretty good. It would take an after school special to explain why your STBX is worried about free time/social time/time free of kids. Why he has a new definition of what's "fair".

It all comes back to the attitude of the divorcing spouse. They are searching for a freedom that they feel they have lost. So all their phrasing, all their ideas of what's "right" come back to that central thought.

And, if he thinks you are getting too good a deal, and he's getting stuck with the bill, he's likely to dig in on smaller stuff (like who takes off time to be with kids.) Decide what you want is worth fighting for and let the rest go.