Hey raliced! For what it's worth, no, I don't think the kids ask the WAS the same questions as they ask the LBS. Mine don't, anyway. My girls won't open up to their dad at all right now. I'm hoping they will someday.
And when H and I were first discussing our S agreement a couple of months ago, he made the comment that he wanted D12 and D16 to visit at the same time or "neither one of us would ever get a free weekend.". My reply was something along the lines of that my girls well-being was far more important than my social life, that I never get a "free" weekend now, and that if I never get another one, so be it. Only slightly more diplomatic. But not a lot. I don't know what entitles your STBX to think anything should be fair or mine to think that anything should be free of children.
