I have not seen a lawyer yet for two reasons. The first is it makes me feel uncomfortable, the second is my best friend has an attorney. If or when I get served I will be contacting him immediately with the terms. He is aware that the W and I are having marital issues.
I will by going with the LRT, or a modified version of it. The W and I had a long talk last night and I will update when I get more time.
The short of it is she wants to work on us again. She did not feel good about filing. She said she wants to work on us. We are setting boundaries and dealing with some issues to make being together easier. Basically she needs to take the reigns more and I need to quit pushing.
More later...
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15