Maybe you could let her know that you are finding the nightly calls hard to accommodate now, and seek some sort of compromise? What level of contact from her would you be comfortable with? Maybe use that as a starting point and negotiate...
I read somewhere - she can ask, you can say no - you can both negotiate....
Best of luck...:-)
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