Theoden gives you some good info. Have you seen a L?
My questions about who you want to be (and notice I didn't tack on ...to bring your W back), thanks for answering.
Be that person.
With everyone, even when you don't want to be that person. Your W will either be re-attracted to you...or she won't but you're left with the prize, being the man you want to be.
That's where the rubber meets the road.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss