That's awful. Properly awful.

I hope you don't mind me jumping in like this but that's pushed some of my buttons.

a lot of my insecurity issues stem from feeling rejected by my parents (long and unoriginal story there). I would say ask your S how he's feeling - he needs to know that its not about him.

Validate, empathise and all that jazz. (With your S not W)


Last edited by jim0987; 11/10/14 11:21 AM.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress