Your H clearly has a disease. I don't know which one exactly but he is not functioning as a sober person. Maybe his disease is overeating, maybe its depression, maybe its MLC but he is sick.
His being nice to you sometimes because of his disease. He knows (or believes) that if he is desperate for co-dependent love he can come back to you. This is not something he does consciously.
I really believe many of these men may try to come back when they hit a 2nd bottom. Stay away and protect your kids.
I wouldn't engage in your text chats with him
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
