Wow, great reply, Lina! Hiya John, glad to hear that things still seem to be on track. (wish my situation was going as well...at least my W didn't throw the book at me ) I think that gentle reminders about what kind of efforts you'd like to see from her, plus lots of patience are two things that can help guide the LD spouse along. Lina's right, though, it's something that they have to adjust inside of themselves, and they have to make the choice to do it.
) I think that gentle reminders about what kind of efforts you'd like to see from her, plus lots of patience are two things that can help guide the LD spouse along. Lina's right, though, it's something that they have to adjust inside of themselves, and they have to make the choice to do it.
