It was so good to come home from work and see these posts! I truly appreciate it! I just needed a little validity and some advice!
Thank for job for the condolences on my grandma. She was 94 but had been slowly declining from dementia the past 20 years. It's been a rough road with her. She went from knowing me, to not knowing me and thinking I was her daughter she had a horrible relationship with. Then she got to the point she could no longer walk or feed herself, but then she recognized me! She couldn't make sensible conversation, but she knew me, and was happy to see me, and that's all I cared about! The last conversation I had with her was one week before she died. She was so happy to see me, and we had our connection for about 3 minutes and then she fell asleep. It meant the world to me.
I agree with everything you all stated in the posts. Yep, total immaturity, and my 15 year old has his number allright! And she won't have any of it! D12 just seems ok to keep on going, yet she's not really thrilled with OW. She doesn't rock the boat.... quite yet! Give her another year or two and I bet she will!
You know Exh ignored his children infront of everyone at that service, especially his family. For that Im grateful, maybe they all can actually see with their own eyes what he's really been like instead of him feeding BS to them all.
I guess Im still baffled at times because the behavior still seems so irrational at times. Quite frankly I can't get over the fact that an MLCer would turn themselves inside out to please someone like that just to be needed and feel special! To the point of making themselves WHIPPED!!
What a waste of time! How about owning your mistakes, learn from them and move on? Oh hell, now that would just make too much logical sense now wouldn't it?
Well this site and everyone here has saved my sanity and continues to do so. I guess the good news is, yes it is as crazy as it seems!
