Cadet you are absolutely right. I have not detached at all. I still think of him as my husband. I don't know what's wrong with me. I feel weak and have zero self respect left. I have lived for so long knowing he doesn't live me that it's become normal. It's as if i am ok with living with someone that doesn't respect me. Will I ever detach and respect myself enough to know I deserve more.
M12 Kids 2 ILYBINILWY 08/05 Reconciled 05/06 S07/12 Moved back 03/13 Separated Again 06/24/13 Back Again (his choice) 02/14 Leaving again 03/23/14 DIVORCED 02/15
