Yeah. I know. We both had developed ways we isolated ourselves over the years and getting un-stuck from them is something I just didn't do. After reading about love languages it has made more sense. At this point I just have to wait because this isn't something I can work on with her now.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."