The all talk no action comment from her caught me off guard. If she really means it then she has been ignoring how she has told me that things seem different now.
I can understand that she would feel unconvinced when she is upset because her emotions have her feelings in the dumps. She may be thinking that if the changes were consistent she would not be feeling angry and sad.
She has told me on numerous occasions that things were different and nice and then came the caveat that it makes her upset when the changes are there because why could they not have been there before.
Sandi, do you think asking her to the concert would be pressuring her?
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