Gogofo - no longer piecing 2nd BD

[labug]

Tell her you have the tickets and that you'd love to go together.

I think she's scared to death of being hurt again. She's going to have to do some work on her end but that's hers to do...or not. She's gonna have to weather same difficult feelings. Relationships are full of difficult feelings.

Validating can be tricky cause it can do just what it did to her, p!ss her off. Dial that back.

Next time ask her what it would e to convince her things will be different. Specifics. What's her LL, if you know? It's pretty clear she needs you to decrease the physical touch for now.

Here's the thing,you can only work on you and show her that a new R with you would be different. You can't fix her.