Greetings! I am fairly new to this, so I don't know that I have that much to offer. I have read some of your sich in the past, but I can't exactly remember.
However, I feel compelled to post, as some of you questions are the exact same I've had this week.
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Is he still trying to keep his toe on this side of the fence?
As of late, I've experienced some monster behavior. Prior to this is was reaching out trying to be "niceish" (for lack of a better word).
But I question this, too. Why the heck does he even bother if he has a new life? What exactly does he want from me? Is that what you wonder? It is hard to find your place in his life with the current sich, right?
The affection part and driving Ms. Daisy... well, I think that is probably just unhealthy codependency and insecurity. And there is a reason for them both to be insecure in there r, right?
And if they can't keep the hands off at a funeral, in front of his kids, who are obviously still upset about the sitch, it is just sick. They need to do that because they aren't strong enough to do otherwise. Just like your xh isn't strong enough to address his own d's!
The contact with you while ow is away... I pretty much have gotten the same thing for months. Good or bad. Again, insecurity in themselves and in their r. Obviously ow would not be comfortable with it- again, for obvious reasons.
Although I offer no real insight into the mlc, because, it is a weird, crazy, wild thing, that I don't think I have the capacity to really understand.... I understand the confusion to the lbs.
It will be interesting to see what others say about this. Good luck. It sounds like you and the girls are doing well. Good for you.
