Everything you describe shows a continued level of immaturity on the part of your husband. I would not read anything into or invest any time in it. He is acting towards your 15 year old much like my wife family is acting towards ours. Like him, they are waiting on my girls to reach out and contact them. Make you wonder who the adults are in this situation. My daughters see right through it and have decided not to waste their time on it. Your husband is handling things wrong with your D15. Make sure you are her rock and always there for her.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"