Well don't tell, but I wouldn't lie if asked a direct question.

Not sure how to put any spin on it or weather you need to. I'm not sure what the db stand would be.

You could try to say confidentially I didn't discuss our conversations, so I won't discuss hers and mine. Common courtesy. Yatter yatter!

M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26