Gogofo - no longer piecing 2nd BD

[gogofo]

So there it is. I feel like she wants suggestions on how to come together and then she says that she feels everything is on my terms. It feels contradicting to me.

I am open to any suggestions as to what to do. When I mentioned MC before she did not seem to keen on it. I know she feels that she does not have the time to put in for it either.

I still have concert tickets for this coming Wednesday and I think we would have fun going, but I do not know if this would be too pushy.

I am confused and torn about finding the balance of suggesting ways to work on us and putting pressure on her. She seems to want help some how or from somewhere, but I don't know how or what to do right now.

I know us just being together with each other has done us well in the past and I would like to keep that up and see us slowly working and coming together. I just need to watch my pace. The difficult part right now is she seems to not have a pace or not know what her pace is.

Suggestions?