New complication(?) to my Sitch and not sure what to do.

As I suspected from a few weeks ago that was my W OM significant other that was at my house.

The reason I know this is because she just left my house now.

She was very troubled and sad. She spilled what she knew about the A. I told her I had my suspicions about an A but until right now I had no proof.

She went on about how heartbroken she was that My W and OM were breaking apart both relationships especially theirs because of the children.

Apparently, This woman has confronted my W on a couple of occasions and my W was very arrogant towards her.

Apparently telling her that she was being intimate with OM and can't get enough of him. But OM keeps lying to this woman that nothing is going on and to "mind your business".

I told her it took great courage to come to me and when she left she said she felt better getting it off her chest.

I told her I feel for her children and hope things will work out for the best.

She said she will call me if she get any pertinent information.

I am not sure why I asked her this question but I asked. "Are you completely done with OM now that he is having an A with my W?"
She responded that she still loved him very much and they have a Family.

I Guess just by her showing up at my house I should have known this but it was a nerve racking time.

Don't know what to do with this info so I could use some advice.


Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014