Gogofo - no longer piecing 2nd BD

[gogofo]

The pushing will stop. I have no other options. She is in the driver's seat and I forgot that. It is her pace.

What I will need help with is if I continue to support her and her schedule as I have been while working on the M. I feel as if I should, show her what she has with me, but my instincts have not always been correct. I can see both sides, helping her and showing her what she has while she has it or showing her what she is losing by not being as flexible and supporting as I have been.

Not being as supportive feels like I would be punishing her, and I know it isn't my job to show her the error of her ways.

Being supportive kind of feels like a doormat, helping out and being flexible for someone who filed for D.

Choices? I think I will continue to support her with the kids and time she needs for school etc unless this is obviously the wrong thing to do.

FYI: we have not talked and I will not initiate contact. She has been playing me in scrabble, that's it.