I would guess her love language is physical touch or time together. I don't tell her about the porn. I might watch something once every couple of months. I know she wouldn't like it. It is usually when we hadn't had sex for a while (like a month or two). She has said she feels that way when we haven't been very connected and I look to initiate sex. She said it's like I want to from 0-60 too fast. And she is right. I am guilty of doing that.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."
