Thanks T2, I forced myself to get a huge thing done today. I had to pretty much detail the inside of my car before I could drive for Uber. It was a huge job as with the kids and all the driving I do (104 miles a day at least), it was in bad shape. It took me several hours but I got it done! Now I need to get my butt out on the road and try and make some money! It's 6:00 here and I figure I can get to the city in about 40 min. and hit the "going out clubbing" people around 8:00. I'll have to depend on GPS as I don't know the area well but I can do it.
While I was out cleaning my car, my W texted me one line..."Can you bring my student loan info with you when you pick up D14 tomorrow". Seems I was right about the fact that the info I sent my lawyer is why they are wanting to have a "hash things out" meeting. Thing is I don't have a lot of info. I only was able to put together an approximate number based on the small amount of info I have. She took all her files when she left so she should have more info than me! Plus, I would feel better if I asked my lawyer if I should give her any info I have. Let her do her own homework! I haven't responded yet. I just saw the text. I will need to get copies of everything before I give her any info and for that I will need to go out and get copies made since my printer isn't working.
I have noticed that this stress has really brought out some feelings that I thought I had under control. Feelings about how my W picked leaving when I needed her and her income more than ever before. Feelings about how she said for so many years that she wouldn't ever get a D, would never put her kids through that pain, all the way up to 12 weeks before b-day! How she has involved her father knowing how he screwed her mother in their D and letting him take the lead. How, even after b-day every time we talked and agreed to do something a certain way, she would talk to her father and a week later "change her mind". All the anger is back on the surface. I'm also angry at myself for letting her do things like put D14 into the school near her instead of one closer to me. I kept trying to be "reasonable", trying to cooperate and all that accomplished was giving her her way and making my life harder.
Should I give her the student loan info that I have? I won't be able to get in touch with my lawyer before I have to meet her since it's the weekend and she will get the info sooner or later anyway. Man, I just don't need to be worrying about this right now!
