Gogofo - no longer piecing 2nd BD

[gogofo]

Sandi2

I want to know how she goes from enjoying our current relationship to her feeling angry. Then this anger takes her to file for divorce. We had plans and were excited to go on a trip one week ago, and then her anger leads her to the lawyer's office.

I never thought of it as "talk about the past and all the ways I let you down." Now that I see it that way I can see what you are suggesting.

She said she cares about me and feels good about us but working on us makes her angry and she is tired of feeling angry so she filed.

Not sure what moves or actions I have left to try and save this relationship. I thought being emotionally supportive and understanding of her anger would possibly help us feel together more and stall or slow or stop the D process.

High hopes and I am sure an impossibility, but that is why I want to talk about her feelings. To listen and validate and understand and hope she feels something for me.