I understand what 25yrs meant about false memories. That's why I asked if there was anyone who could back up or remember some the experiences she says happened.

It doesn't seem to get a lot easier, does it, Crimson? Life always has new challenges to throw at us. I really pray she can heal over this problem. If I were her, I would need my H to believe me, above anyone else. It would be vital to me. I think you are showing her that you do and are supporting her every way you can.

25yrs is also right about not letting this suck you in as far as letting it take over your life. I hope this will not define your R with each other. I think you've learned you cannot rescue her (at least I hope you have), but this may prove to test you, IDK. Let the professionals help her and you just be you (the improved Crimson). So glad to hear the good side of things.

(hugs)

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!