Hopefully we can talk on Saturday about how she feels. I just want to listen and my coach guided me on some things to say and not to say and good questions to ask to understand how she feels.
Why do you have to talk about her feelings? How is that different from saying, "Talk about the past and all the ways I let you down"? Stay away from the hornets nest.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
