Okay, thanks for the information. Could you answer these other questions, please?

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Is it common for her to ask you to get her something she likes?

While you are waiting on the books, you can find the first chapters on the board. Also, be doing a lot of soul searching and list the specific things you need to change to become a better man. Name what you know bothered her. You have already named some things you are improving (which are great, btw) but what about the interaction between your W and you? What would you need to improve there?

Do you know what she needs to feel emotionally connected with you? Do you know her Love Language?

What kind of personality do your W and children see in you? How does your personality and hers differ from each other?

Do you see ways you could polish some manners and charm?

What about her level of attraction to you? Can you tell?

You have three children with her. Why haven't you M her?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!