Let go of your timeline and live your life. make the most of it you can. You're not ready for a new R anyway, are you?....Labug, thanks for that! I am going to write that down and post it on my mirror so I see it EVERY morning and EVERY evening. That sums up what I need to do to GAL. GREAT advice. And, so sorry, Claire, for high-jacking your post to steal a piece of advice that spoke to me.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids