Hi, I can't even count how many times I have clearly articulated my concerns my feelings and my desires, dreams and even boundaries. I have to admit I've been told by h that I'm mean in the way I approach him. At first I'm humble, trying to open my heart in how I feel, then H listens, then blasts me with the most negative response,( point the problem back at me), it becomes a ping pong expedition. I've been married 20 years with this guy. I've bend over backwards to explain but it always blow up. He doesn't want to know that he is hurting me.
