hey job -

thanks for note. i do feel like a rat coming here to totally "dump" when i notice i'm blue . it seems like i would be heaping on more junk out there in the forum where everyone's suffering already.

but thanks for invite- and i sure do manage, don't I, to speak up. it's the only place i "know" some folks are out there- listening maybe, having some good thoughts & words to offer.

this whole " sufferin" stuff- it sure make you realize how few people really are there when ya need it, help, understanding, etc.

nothing dramatic- just a pat on head and a "we understand" , feel free to come here, etc.

it sure makes all the difference in the universe to hear someone say - it's okay- feel free. so thanks- made my day-

i'm outta here- tons and tons more to do -

not to mention own mess of a house/life, etc.

whew- the "misery years" - saying that makes me have to laugh - at my drama - oh well- fingers cross4ed that they are (almost???) thru??

it's all gotta be over someday - rite????

xxoo have a good day.

you're sure right about our " treasures" being crappola to others. BUT - we've all taken things from mom's , and my n3eices and friends, soooo, i think she's being thought of daily in alot of places - i suppose that's the most one can expect or ask - huh???


she and i drove each otehr nuts alot- but she was a good egg in so many ways- no kidding. i think (hope) the people she helped all remember the good things she did & her kindness. *(and her sense of humour (which was v good back in the day bevfore old age got to her).

oh well- there but for the grace of God huh???