"If you go go go all the time just to forget your situation that is not healthy either. In fact, I see my WAH doing this and he is making himself sick and exhausted."
That's an excellent point. I think it's part of the script to have us believe they are happier that ever.
There is so much talk about GAL around here, Little, don't run all the time just because some internet website says you have to. Be you. I think that is the most important thing. Just be you. I think we loose so much of our selves in our partners that we forget how to do it when they are not around. And there's not ANYTHING wrong with that, either.
Do what you want because you want to. Not to make someone else happy, not to spite someone else, but simply for you.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3