KGirl, I'm not a vet with sage advice, but I'm here. That is hard news to hear. You have some reality to face - he wants to file. But many, many people have remarried after D. And I've also seen some reconciliations on here after filing but before D. Try your best to remain calm on the phone call. Don't think of it like your M is ending tomorrow or even if/when the D is final. It ended at or before BD. If it is going to be reconciled, it will be M #2.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23
