If anyone has any words of encouragement or thoughts or advice.. or really anything.. it would be much appreciated. I feel like I'm starting the whole greiving process all over again. I got a little too comfortable with putting the M and H aside,to the point where I think I was in denial, and now I have to face it again. I'm thinking I will just listen to whatever he has to say on the phone tomorrow, and can tell him I'll need to think about it and answer later via email or something with my thoughts.


Me:30 H:29, no kids
T:12, M:4 (when D was final)
12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore"
6/14: Separated (I move)
1/15: H filed for D
5/15: D final