Well, No lashing for the evening. I really hadn't planned on hearing from her tonight but she called and was rather pleasant.
Texts from this morning:
M: I'm sorry, that was very rude and insensitive of me. M: Sounds like that was very hurtful to you. I know how hard you've been working. Insanely hard. I can only imagine how tired this probably makes you. I know it must be hard being away from the girls. It was a foolish and reckless comment that should have never left my mouth. W: Yes its extremely hard being away from the girls you have no idea. M: I can only imagine. Please forgive my rudeness. You were being very sweet and that was very wrong.
This is pretty much it. I guess I could have lessened a little bit. My main focus at the moment was to defuse a "lashing" event. It appears that I was successful, for the moment.
I need to get better at being okay "with or without" as my sponsor puts it and GoatGal, Fundad, & Starsky have pointed out. I'm working on it.
BTW, Goatgal, where what do you play?
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3