Kat, you know I think that you are the best. Kat said "Now when you pray for her, I suggest that you pray she finds peace for herself, that the pain in her life goes away and that she finds that she can do all that she wants in life."
I think this is great advice. My W right now is so frantic, does not get to sleep until 3 am, and I thought this might cause her to miss the peace and calm she had with me. But your advice W be blessed with peace is wise advice. For her to just have time to herself to think can only help.
The forgiveness thing. That's hard. And not bc she is running around on me. This part I really don't care about. Anyway, I understand my need to eventually forgive. But not today.
