Quick journaling - I saw MiL and FiL today. We are together on the Board of Directors for a charity helping one of the poorest sections of Mazatlan, and I wanted to give them some copies of paperwork I filed. Although we chatted a bit, W was not even mentioned.

Picked up s13 at W's place and she asked for my help in cleaning up her computer. I agreed and it was filled with viruses. Ran a virus protection program and it removed some of them, but not all.

W was looking tired but dressed to kill. She wore a tight top, push up bra, spandex pants and stiletto heeled boots. She saw a woman friend from our old neighborhood for lunch, who is dealing with breast cancer, and had already started her treatments. Very sad.

The whole time I am there, W is arguing with s13. Silly stuff, like son not putting the bowls in the dishwasher the right way. I staid out of it, except once when s13 was rude, I told him to be respectful to his Mom.

Right before we left, I decided to ask W for a hug. It was a long, nice hug. And I am 7+ inches taller than W, so I wrapped her up well. Then she asked me to get s13 out of there, which I did. I've decided to give myself a permanent exemption from db'ing when W wears that outfit.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace