In regards to porn addiction: no. I watch it on occasion, but with no real regularity. I don't mistake porn for reality. I have read Divorce Remedy, but need to keep re-reading it to make sure it sinks in. I have also just read the book on 5 love languages. We have done counseling a long time ago. About 20+ years ago (before we were married) I had a one night stand and confessed it to her immediately. We were having the same issues then and just had been living together for a couple of years. We went to counseling again about 5 years later when she said she still was feeling the effects of my original infidelity. The first time we went the therapist wasn't very good for us (especially her). The second time it helped some. I have never belittled or made fun of her in front of anyone and not at home either. She would never put up with that from me or anyone. She is a very strong woman and I admire her for that. But I will think about that some more.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."
