Wow great reply much appreciated A bit about my w she is 34yr old she really has a heart of gold she gives up so much of her time to charity work, she supports the elderly and the homeless and is much loved by everyone in our small community she does do some paying work but has been struggling since she left me and I have been supporting her by paying for food and a few other bills A bit about me I'm 47yrs old but very young looking for my age most people think I'm in my 30's I work full time in a decent paying job and have provided for my family for the last 11yrs, the kids love me to bits as that's where most of my spare time was spent rambling through the woods or walking along the beach with the kids Sex life was amazing that's her words so no problem there What she is saying is she never felt loved and special she is convinced in her head I don't love her and this is not just a cry for attention, for the first 3 month there was no getting through to her the barricades were up and nothing I could say could get through to her she even told me to go find someone else as she would never want me back and she was done, now after that I started following the 37 rules and the the LRT which has brought her closer to me and we are now good friends but very little relationship talk
