Yes. She has. I really have no good excuse. I like affection (not as much as she did/ does). I would often go for periods of being wrapped up in my head and be pretty inattentive to that and then I'd want my needs met when I wasn't addressing hers. I came from a very low affection family. My parents didn't hug. I never saw them sitting together or cuddling. This is not to excuse my behavior, it is just my model. She most often would bring it up after I started a discussion about my needs. I tried to change at times and it would work for a while or she'd just see any affection I gave her as having an ulterior motive for wanting to have sex.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."
