A big set of our issues (our repeated fight for our entire relationship) is around affection, intimacy, and time together
From her point of view, the issues in the R (affection. Intimacy, and time together) may have had to do with the below statement:
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I have made her feel like crap. Like she was a piece of meat in regards to our sex life. That I didn't care or listen to her about her need to feel close.
Has she tried to explain this over time? I think you are now getting real.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
