As a part of detaching I understand you are supposed to limit your interactions. I know that I need to do this more. If I mention something that happened at work or something that I found amusing or interesting it is met with a minimal response or silence. I don't know if this is on purpose or if she is just mentaly wrapped up in her schoolwork (which she will talk about). I suppose I just should not talk about myself/ my life outside the house. How do others deal with this? It is very foreign to how I normally act (which I guess is the point).
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."