Jeanne7 - You should consider reading The 5 Love Languages. It talks about situations just like yours. There might be hope. Keep in mind that you can only control yourself so the initial efforts will have to come from you entirely.
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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.