Hi Zues,
Yeah I dont see it as a backslide at all...she initiated contact and I had no intention of contacting her...in fact I never plan to. She can contact me or we just won't talk...I really dont care at this point...whatever.

I am doing well...been going out a lot and keeping busy focusing on my own life. The more time that passes the more I find myself knowing WAW is going to regret all of this. So I just do my thing and don't really think much about talking to her...she wants to talk, she contacts me or forget it...I will never initiate contact again barrong something serious like death or something. Other than that she can do whatever she wants at this point. I just dont care and I am fine because I have my own life now and I am actually enjoying hanging with old friends. Its weird because a lot of people I used to hang out with back when I first met WAW are also recently divorced...must be something in the air here this year. But its nice because there's lots of people to go out with now plus I am meeting new people as well. So all is well with me and I am just living my life day by day.


ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14