You knew that one of the editors was a perfectionist several weeks ago...but I'm going to put this out here for you....no matter what you do, that particular editor will not be happy. Why? Because this person devotes all of their time to trying to be perfect. You could lay golden eggs and hand them out to everyone and this person still wouldn't be happy. Psst...nothing is perfect in this world, so don't let this person get to you.
As long as one of the editor's is happy w/you and your work...don't sweat it. He is very much aware of the situation and knows that you are still learning the ropes and this other person has been there a while. I would lay down my last dollar and state that when this perfectionist editor was around, people where happy because this person was constantly on them about this and that. Heather, no one is perfect except the man upstairs and that's why pencils have erasers...we all make mistakes, whether this person wants to admit it or not.
As for the coffee spill, I'm sorry it happen. You've got a lot on your mind and the meeting took you back a couple of steps...but you are doing fine...don't let one person get you down.
I'm not surprised to hear that D12 is struggling because it's been a huge adjustment for her. She's in a new place, needs to make some new friends and will need to get involved in some outside activities.
When D20 become your D12's supervisor/mother? Your oldest daughter needs to look at herself and determine what her own goals are. She needs to own her side of the street and stop pressuring your youngest daughter. Speak up and tell her to focus on her on issues and do what is necessary to take care of herself. You've got your youngest daughter's back.
Learn to speak up and allow others to hear how you feel. Don't bottle this stuff up.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
